Thursday, September 13, 2007
Whinging around
It's been long time I have abandoned my blog and it's time to catch back my niche. Working life is not fun at all, as you will need to face a lot of different personalities individual and they may not be your ideal working partner. I would say office politic is everywhere. More importantly is how to get rid of all the shits. As in to work well with other and still be able to show your capability. One of my friends always say that in order to survive in a new environment, one must always act stupid. Chinese idom says that " 大智若愚" but i really don know how true is it.It is really a forever learning knowledge to go well with your colleagues and friends. Communication is very very important.I always thought that as a newbie in a company, we must work hard, never complain, do whatever stuffs that assigned to you. But I think I have done a big mistake. People has the tendency to take advantage of our kind assistance, once you have started showing your helpfulness, the job will stick to you like a parasite forever. If you reject the task in the future, they will think that we are irresponsible. What a cruel fact....I'm not saying that i'm working in an unhappy environment but I need to deal with people in a more tactful and diplomatic way in order to survive. I feel myself to be so dishonest and have lost my naivety. How sad...